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To Love With Freedom
  • To love with freedom is a challenge for most but it should be extremely easy to do.
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  • Loving should take no effort. Love should be effortless yet often we encounter love with such weight that not even the strongest man in the world could move it.
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  • If you encounter love that requires effort, then it isn't love. It's an illusion.
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  • The silly thing about loving with freedom is that it can happen in such strange ways that most of us are not even aware that it is happening!
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  • Take for example for your family pet. True, not everyone is a pet lover, but for those that are, there is an instant bond. There is instant love. There is instant love with freedom.
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  • With a family pet, you will notice how you love without effort. You embrace your pet without expecting anything in return from your pet. You require nothing and expect nothing from your pet.
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  • You allow your pet to be the way your pet wants to be. Sure you may train your pet. Sure you may put your pet on a leash when taking it for a walk, but ultimately you do not stop or keep your pet's happiness hostage to your own personal desires and wants.
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  • When it comes to loving your partner with freedom, things get a bit more complicated than loving your pet... but only because you allow it to. Instead of focussing on what love isn't, you begin to focus on what love should be with your human partner.
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  • A pet is very different to a human, yet the ideals of love are the same.
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  • Love is not about control. Ultimately, love is about freedom.
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  • The real beauty of love is experienced when two lovers help each other be free while knowing they will always come back to each other.
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  • It is very similar to the people who keep flocks of pigeons. The pigeons are free to fly away and they do! They fly around the neighborhood and community yet the pigeons always come back to where they have shelter and food.
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  • Love is not about control. Love is about freedom.
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  • True love is about letting your partner be free. In true love, it is like your partner really does have the key to your heart and with this key, your partner is able to unlock your heart thus freeing you from your self.
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  • In this act of freeing, love begins to pour out of you from inside out. It appears that your partner is giving you love, but it is actually the love inside of you oozing out of yourself.
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  • It takes a special partner to unlock your heart and when it happens, the power of the love is beyond description.
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  • When things begin to go sour in a relationship or when you are simply wanting to improve the quality of your relationship, ask yourself "am I loving with freedom?"
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  • Let your partner be free while knowing they will always come back to you.
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  • It's perfectly fine to train your partner just as you train your dog, but changing or controlling the very essence of your partner is control which is to be avoided.
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  • When there is control, there is less communication and there is more arguing. There is tension and friction. Each partner wanting to have their lover do this or do that to keep control of them. Since it is only human nature to be defensive, a battle begins where neither partner wants to admit defeat.
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  • When you surrender your love to your partner, you are not inviting your partner to attack you or hurt you. Any partner that does attack you or purposely hurts you is not a good partner. When you surrender your love you are in fact saying that you are defenseless yet you know that your partner will not hurt you.
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  • Surrendering your love is the first step to loving with freedom.
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  • Surrendering love to your partner is a mutual act. Both partners ultimately need to surrender their love to the other. If only one partner surrenders then it isn't love.
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  • Once you surrender your love then your partner can unlock the key to your heart. When this happens then the love you have inside oozes out with joy. There is nothing more beautiful than when two partners share the freedom of love.
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  • When you love with control then your partner will never allow you to unlock their heart.
 
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